We say Forget About Valentines Day!

Hallmark has you hooked don’t they??? The need to keep up with the guy in the cubicle across from you who makes sure the world knows how much money to spend to show his wife his “love”. Not that there’s anything wrong with that but we know your secret… Everyday is Valentine’s Day at your house. You don’t need flowers with a 900% price increase to show your partner how much you care. The last knowing look at the orgy you were at last weekend says it all and shows it more than you know.

In this episode we also dive into some of the pillars of success in the lifestyle, what an ITLRing can do for you and our excitement for the upcoming launch of Version 5 of ITL! (and we let a few secrets out about it too) We also just realized during the recording of this show that we are only a week away from our 9th anniversary online serving the lifestyle community. How crazy awesome is that!

Thanks as always for tuning in and listening! If you have comments or questions we are here to answer them!

xoxo

Cindy & James

Words and knowing how to use them can and will get you laid.

It’s a fact.

Join us for Episode 50 (Yes this is number 50!!!) as we dive into a topic that we feel is one that will get you where you want in life and in the orgy rooms. Communication Strategies and knowing how to deploy them is such an important part of sexuality so you know this is going to be a juicy conversation!

We also streamed this recording live on Facebook and had a bunch of fun with those that joined us so be sure to watch for future ones as we get into the groove of sharing across multiple platforms 🙂

We love all the support and comments we get with each episode so please keep them coming! As always the best and fastest way to reach us is via Into The Lifestyle – we are there all day everyday (it seems like it anyway!)

XOXO

Cindy & James

the Little Things Matter the Most

It’s so true in every aspect of your day. All of the little things matter the most when they add up to inspire a bigger outcome.

In this episode we take a deep dive into the idea that an accumulation of small instances can and will add up to something bigger in your life. We also take a look at how influences, both good and bad, can affect the outcomes that you will get in every moment of your day.

If you really want to see how this does change your way of being and your day start taking note of the little things that do it for you, write them down and then share them with our partner… ask them to do it as well and then compare your lists! You will then start to see the little things that work for you showing up more often in your day… (trust us this works so well, your partner just needs to be told what your little things are!)

We love of the feedback we receive on the multiple platforms that we are on but truly mean it when we say that when you connect with us via ITL – Into The Lifestyle, you will get a response so much faster!

Also for future episodes we would love to have a guest or two join in on the conversation so if you are in the Vancouver BC area let us know and we can see if it will work!

Much Love

XOXO

Cindy & James

No one wants More Dick Pictures… Please!

We were at a party on the weekend and the conversation evolved to I wonder who is here that is on the prowl… So at the recommendation of a friend Cindy downloaded a well known app and started swiping left… and right! It was astonishing how different the approach was by single men and their need to get off.

Hey Baby, how’s your Monday

Damn Girl, you are super fine

I can’t believe you are looking, it’s my lucky day!

And the list goes on, and on, and on! Super fast unrequested photos of dicks ensued and Cindy started categorizing these unfortunate people before they had a chance to let their personalities shine. So this is definitely not the case on Into The Lifestyle – the single males there seem to get it and have embraced what works… and what doesn’t!

So have a listen as CIndy tells it like a woman on the other side of the screen is thinking – guys this is an opportunity for you to learn what works and what doesn’t!

Cheers everyone!

XOXO

Cindy & James

Meaning Making Machines

We all do it but are we aware of the consequences?

In this episode we talk about the meaning we make in all situations due to living in the past. The stories that we tell ourselves every second of every day based on the experiences that we have had throughout our lives brings us to a place that we are making meaning out of every encounter. But is it the right meaning? Most likely not! Every person on the planet makes their own meaning and no two will ever perfectly align. This is why recognizing this as a possibility and having the tools to have clear communication is a must; both in and out of the bedroom!

Its not a bad thing to be a meaning making machine, we just need to recognize that we are doing it! When you do see the pattern it allows us to have more meaningful connections like the ones you will find on Into The Lifestyle

We love hearing from you on all of our channels and we invite you to comment and leave a review if you are inspired by this subject.

XOXO

Cindy & James

 

Disappointment and Heartbreak is everywhere but it doesn’t need to be if you use a few simple tools.

Join us in this episode as we talk about our experiences around dealing with disappointment and heartbreak both in and out of the lifestyle.

Also in this episode we have a gift for one lucky winner, just comment on this specific post on our podcast website and one random commenter will receive a copy of one of James’ favorite books; The Thank You Economy by Gary Vaynerchuk.

I don’t even know why I say this every time in the show notes but as always our conversation is all over the place in this episode and we cover a wide range of ideas and topics so you never know what you might pick up from this show!

Thank you so much for tuning in, commenting and all of the amazing reviews! Be sure to catch us for a live chat on Into The Lifestyle 🙂

XOXO

Cindy & James

Navigating the Lifestyle can have its ups and downs… But that is normal!

We hear it time and again from so many people that they are not feeling the lifestyle and then a few weeks or even months later they are back 100%. Its natural to be in the feeling and out and it is perfect as it is your journey. Check out NeuropathyHelp.co’s post for guidelines in taking care of oneself.

In landscaping, we dig into what the ebb and flow of the lifestyle could look like for you and how we see navigating the lifestyle can be based on our experiences as a numbers game. We also dig into online communities and what can make the special for you based on keeping your needs first as a core value in their operation. Also (and this seems to be more of as an always) the conversation takes in in lots of other directions too, so tune in and listen to what falls out of our mouths lol.

If you want to take advantage of the opportunities of becoming a truck driver, here is everything you need to know. For more details, My CDL Training can help you.

Lots of love everyone, thank you for listening and sending in the comments and feedback!

XOXO

Cindy & James

Want to connect with one of us real time? Join us on www.intothelifestyle.com – we are ITLJames & ITLCyn

We Are Back… And want to talk about New Connections!

We took a break that ended being longer than we planned but we are back and ready to talk all things lifestyle and relationships!

In this episode we go all over the place but talk to the Influence formula, asking for what you want and a whole bunch of other related subjects.Speaking of connection, if you need translation services in Brisbane check this out.

If you are into vaping, use this aspire vape. Also, you can buy it for wholesale coils and tanks.

So join us, listen in and comment below… we would LOVE to hear from you!

Individuality in the lifestyle is HUGE!

Individuality

In this episode we dig deep into the importance of individuality and how you as an individual must strive to find your own path. As our favorite aesthetic doctor Dr. Paul Vitenas used to tell us, look for what makes you unique and highlight that. Of course, we always suggest listening to people who have experience but when it comes down to what is best for you only you will know…. and that’s perfect!

As always we tend to get a little off topic and talk a little about our friendly narcissist to the south Donald Trump and a host of other things as well.

Thank you so much for listening, please feel free to leave feedback below or reach out to us and the various channels we frequent. For the quickest response we can be found live on IntoTheLifestyle.com (and its waaaaay hotter there!)

XOXO

Cindy & James

Swinging destroyed my marriage – what a myth!

We hear time and time again from people who are not in the lifestyle that being a swinger or taking part in the lifestyle has broken up many marriages. We dispel this myth AND we let you in on a secret project we have in the works!

As always feedback rocks so please feel free to leave it below or reach out to us on the various social media websites we frequent – for the fastest response catch us on ITL – Intothelifestyle.com

XOXO

Cindy & James