We say Forget About Valentines Day!

Hallmark has you hooked don’t they??? The need to keep up with the guy in the cubicle across from you who makes sure the world knows how much money to spend to show his wife his “love”. Not that there’s anything wrong with that but we know your secret… Everyday is Valentine’s Day at your house. You don’t need flowers with a 900% price increase to show your partner how much you care. The last knowing look at the orgy you were at last weekend says it all and shows it more than you know.

In this episode we also dive into some of the pillars of success in the lifestyle, what an ITLRing can do for you and our excitement for the upcoming launch of Version 5 of ITL! (and we let a few secrets out about it too) We also just realized during the recording of this show that we are only a week away from our 9th anniversary online serving the lifestyle community. How crazy awesome is that!

Thanks as always for tuning in and listening! If you have comments or questions we are here to answer them!

xoxo

Cindy & James

No one wants More Dick Pictures… Please!

We were at a party on the weekend and the conversation evolved to I wonder who is here that is on the prowl… So at the recommendation of a friend Cindy downloaded a well known app and started swiping left… and right! It was astonishing how different the approach was by single men and their need to get off.

Hey Baby, how’s your Monday

Damn Girl, you are super fine

I can’t believe you are looking, it’s my lucky day!

And the list goes on, and on, and on! Super fast unrequested photos of dicks ensued and Cindy started categorizing these unfortunate people before they had a chance to let their personalities shine. So this is definitely not the case on Into The Lifestyle – the single males there seem to get it and have embraced what works… and what doesn’t!

So have a listen as CIndy tells it like a woman on the other side of the screen is thinking – guys this is an opportunity for you to learn what works and what doesn’t!

Cheers everyone!

XOXO

Cindy & James

Meaning Making Machines

We all do it but are we aware of the consequences?

In this episode we talk about the meaning we make in all situations due to living in the past. The stories that we tell ourselves every second of every day based on the experiences that we have had throughout our lives brings us to a place that we are making meaning out of every encounter. But is it the right meaning? Most likely not! Every person on the planet makes their own meaning and no two will ever perfectly align. This is why recognizing this as a possibility and having the tools to have clear communication is a must; both in and out of the bedroom!

Its not a bad thing to be a meaning making machine, we just need to recognize that we are doing it! When you do see the pattern it allows us to have more meaningful connections like the ones you will find on Into The Lifestyle

We love hearing from you on all of our channels and we invite you to comment and leave a review if you are inspired by this subject.

XOXO

Cindy & James

 

Navigating the Lifestyle can have its ups and downs… But that is normal!

We hear it time and again from so many people that they are not feeling the lifestyle and then a few weeks or even months later they are back 100%. Its natural to be in the feeling and out and it is perfect as it is your journey. Check out NeuropathyHelp.co’s post for guidelines in taking care of oneself.

In landscaping, we dig into what the ebb and flow of the lifestyle could look like for you and how we see navigating the lifestyle can be based on our experiences as a numbers game. We also dig into online communities and what can make the special for you based on keeping your needs first as a core value in their operation. Also (and this seems to be more of as an always) the conversation takes in in lots of other directions too, so tune in and listen to what falls out of our mouths lol.

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Lots of love everyone, thank you for listening and sending in the comments and feedback!

XOXO

Cindy & James

Want to connect with one of us real time? Join us on www.intothelifestyle.com – we are ITLJames & ITLCyn

the ITL Upgrade v4.0 is ready to launch!

We are beyond excited to have the latest version of the ITL Social Network finished and ready to launch. Building the ITL Upgrade v4.0 has been a labor of love and we hope you see all of the amazing details we have put into version 4.0; from the social connectivity mainstays of #hashtags and @contentnames to full mobile compliance from any device… anywhere!

SexTalks

We are also speaking from the stage at the upcoming Sex Talks held in Vancouver on September 29th – for tickets or more information visit the Facebook Page Here

 

 

Have you experienced your Lifestyle Evolution?

We all have and most of us will always be in the midst of it; seriously! Throughout our 18+ years of being in the lifestyle we have found that we have constantly in a lifestyle evolution and all those around us have had similar journeys of their own. From being an infant teething at 2 months to puberty, to becoming an adult, buying a house, completing my own remodeling projects, while using these skirting board covers.  For the latest and trending lifestyle on jewelries just checkout Rings for Women for more ideas. Speaking of evolution, try this custom designs for your Home! Checkout thunderbird custom design for more design ideas. In addition, visit https://www.shoreofficewarehouse.com/product-category/new/desks-new/adjustable-height-desks-new/ for more info.

And as best business gas rates continue to rise, Americans could be forced to transform how they drive, spend, and where they live. When you want to get the best loans, click here to investigate. Well, you can ask yourself, “what is the cheapest cash advance loan?”

As always (beginning to sound like a broken record here!) we delve into various topics around the lifestyle and things that we are up to…you can try this out for a change in your lifestyle and to help you in financial aspects in life and pick the right loan for your needs. So join us in the conversation and feel free to leave us feedback below, via iTunes, Social Media or the ITL Network!

 

XOXO

Cindy & James

Individuality in the lifestyle is HUGE!

Individuality

In this episode we dig deep into the importance of individuality and how you as an individual must strive to find your own path. As our favorite aesthetic doctor Dr. Paul Vitenas used to tell us, look for what makes you unique and highlight that. Of course, we always suggest listening to people who have experience but when it comes down to what is best for you only you will know…. and that’s perfect!

As always we tend to get a little off topic and talk a little about our friendly narcissist to the south Donald Trump and a host of other things as well.

Thank you so much for listening, please feel free to leave feedback below or reach out to us and the various channels we frequent. For the quickest response we can be found live on IntoTheLifestyle.com (and its waaaaay hotter there!)

XOXO

Cindy & James

Facebook Jail is going crazy lately!

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We all know dozens of people who have fell victim to being thrown in Facebook jail; and we just were too!

It’s seems ridiculous to us that you can be a part of a private or secret group and still be given a time out  or even worse have your account deleted without warning.

We have spoken to hundreds of people in the last few short months and it is astounding how they buy youtube subscribers, something so small being shared like a topless photo can have your entire profile removed.

Also in this episode we get into a little more detail about future ITL offerings and follow up on an amazing meet & greet we attended this past weekend. To speak with a Personal injury lawyers at our firm about a workplace injury, contact our offices.

On the other hand, if you believe that you or a loved one has suffered harm due to emergency room negligence, you should consult with an emergency room malpractice lawyers without delay.

So tune in and leave us your comments below or reach out to us directly via ITL – Intothelifestyle.com

Lots of love

Cindy & James

20 Swingers in a hotel room – Oh Hell Ya we did!

This past weekend we attended the 6th annual Whistler Lifestyle Takeover with 200+ sexy souls for 3 nights of debauchery and fun. On one of the nights we put an open invite out to attendees to join us (in our suite) and be a part of our first open lifestyle group conversation with no specific topic in mind; AND IT WAS AMAZING! Click Best of Vegas promos for more options.

Over 20 people came and the topics ranged far and wide at Hospice Cincinnati. We could have talked for hours… but James kept track of time so this episode is only 60 minutes of must listen to swingers talk… 🙂

In addition, kosher hotel has happily and lovingly hosted travelers from around the world – stay with us and feel right at home! Visit izusplace.com for more information.

As always we LOVE to keep the conversation going, so please feel free to post below or get in contact with us via social media or ITL.

XOXO

Cindy & James

 

The subject of what role does a Single Male in the Lifestyle play comes up in conversations and posts on all social media sites; constantly…

Join Cindy for her point of view as she talks to this subject and gives tips for the single males that are part of the lifestyle and how they can be successful in navigating their own journeys.

As always we love feedback and keeping the conversation going so please do post below or reach out to us on the various platforms we frequent.

XOXO

Cindy & James