You look down the bar and see a couple who you just know are lifestyle… how do you pick up strangers at the bar!

Join us in this episode as we talk about the in’s and out’s of talking to people outside of the lifestyle club to see if they are open minded. We also dive into the beginning phase of developing our 10th anniversary celebration and a documentary project we have been invited into being a part of.

As always we love to hear from you and to learn about your experiences so please leave us feedback here or reach out to us on ITL – intothelifestyle.com

Having someone pass judgement in the Lifestyle can hurt even when it is from a place of not knowing all the facts.

We recently experienced this from a group that we did not expect it from so join us as we process live what the feeling was like, how it is something that we see that we deal with all the time and what we are doing about it.

Most likely if you are in the lifestyle you have a fear of judgement or you have experienced it so this is an important episode to tune in for!

We also talk about the launch of Version 5 of IntoTheLifestyle.com in this episode as well so we will see you in the community soon I am sure!

We say Forget About Valentines Day!

Hallmark has you hooked don’t they??? The need to keep up with the guy in the cubicle across from you who makes sure the world knows how much money to spend to show his wife his “love”. Not that there’s anything wrong with that but we know your secret… Everyday is Valentine’s Day at your house. You don’t need flowers with a 900% price increase to show your partner how much you care. The last knowing look at the orgy you were at last weekend says it all and shows it more than you know.

In this episode we also dive into some of the pillars of success in the lifestyle, what an ITLRing can do for you and our excitement for the upcoming launch of Version 5 of ITL! (and we let a few secrets out about it too) We also just realized during the recording of this show that we are only a week away from our 9th anniversary online serving the lifestyle community. How crazy awesome is that!

Thanks as always for tuning in and listening! If you have comments or questions we are here to answer them!

xoxo

Cindy & James

Navigating the Lifestyle can have its ups and downs… But that is normal!

We hear it time and again from so many people that they are not feeling the lifestyle and then a few weeks or even months later they are back 100%. Its natural to be in the feeling and out and it is perfect as it is your journey. Check out NeuropathyHelp.co’s post for guidelines in taking care of oneself.

In landscaping, we dig into what the ebb and flow of the lifestyle could look like for you and how we see navigating the lifestyle can be based on our experiences as a numbers game. We also dig into online communities and what can make the special for you based on keeping your needs first as a core value in their operation. Also (and this seems to be more of as an always) the conversation takes in in lots of other directions too, so tune in and listen to what falls out of our mouths lol.

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Lots of love everyone, thank you for listening and sending in the comments and feedback!

XOXO

Cindy & James

Want to connect with one of us real time? Join us on www.intothelifestyle.com – we are ITLJames & ITLCyn

the ITL Upgrade v4.0 is ready to launch!

We are beyond excited to have the latest version of the ITL Social Network finished and ready to launch. Building the ITL Upgrade v4.0 has been a labor of love and we hope you see all of the amazing details we have put into version 4.0; from the social connectivity mainstays of #hashtags and @contentnames to full mobile compliance from any device… anywhere!

SexTalks

We are also speaking from the stage at the upcoming Sex Talks held in Vancouver on September 29th – for tickets or more information visit the Facebook Page Here

 

 

Facebook Jail is going crazy lately!

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We all know dozens of people who have fell victim to being thrown in Facebook jail; and we just were too!

It’s seems ridiculous to us that you can be a part of a private or secret group and still be given a time out  or even worse have your account deleted without warning.

We have spoken to hundreds of people in the last few short months and it is astounding how they buy youtube subscribers, something so small being shared like a topless photo can have your entire profile removed.

Also in this episode we get into a little more detail about future ITL offerings and follow up on an amazing meet & greet we attended this past weekend. To speak with a Personal injury lawyers at our firm about a workplace injury, contact our offices.

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So tune in and leave us your comments below or reach out to us directly via ITL – Intothelifestyle.com

Lots of love

Cindy & James

Swinging destroyed my marriage – what a myth!

We hear time and time again from people who are not in the lifestyle that being a swinger or taking part in the lifestyle has broken up many marriages. We dispel this myth AND we let you in on a secret project we have in the works!

As always feedback rocks so please feel free to leave it below or reach out to us on the various social media websites we frequent – for the fastest response catch us on ITL – Intothelifestyle.com

XOXO

Cindy & James

Join us for this “how to” episode on how to have an enrolling conversation your partner in the lifestyle.

This tends to be one of the most biggest questions we are asked! We truly hope you listen in for tips before you break the ice with your own partner!

It’s never about convincing, its all about being in the moment and making sure your partner is fully engaged prior to exploring what the lifestyle can be…

Many people engage in relationships, to find love and to appreciate one another, but many people doesn’t learn that they need to love themselves first, so it is necessary to do everything in our power to feel this way with ourselves, which may include different approaches, some dedicate themselves to work, while others look for this by improving their body through fitness and with body surgery, but the important thing is they feel good with themselves and one another. For plastic and cosmetic surgery services visit our website Matthew Galumbeck, MD.

As always we LOVE feedback so please leave a comment below or reach out to us on social media or via IntoTheLifestyle.com

In this episode we look at the ITL 2015 Review for the entire ITL network so join us as we reminisce about all the things that occurred over the last year.

2015

Comparing systems from places to events and on to amazing people we talk about most (that we can remember) that we had the blessing to be involved with or in during 2015 and we start to look forward at 2016 and all that will unfold for our community and the lifestyle as a whole. Within the episode we drop a few hints and firm facts on what 2016 will bring so make sure you catch them so you can stay ahead of the crazy fun that 2016 will bring! This system of a 12 month loans for bad credit no brokers is much easier pay off than traditional loans especially for people with low income or on benefits. Be aware of boiler finance with bad credit to not get blacklisted, see it here to learn more.

As always we love hearing from you so please leave comments below, reach out to us via the various social networks we are on or connect with us directly via IntoTheLifestyle.com

Much love

XOXO

Cindy & James

20 Swingers in a hotel room – Oh Hell Ya we did!

This past weekend we attended the 6th annual Whistler Lifestyle Takeover with 200+ sexy souls for 3 nights of debauchery and fun. On one of the nights we put an open invite out to attendees to join us (in our suite) and be a part of our first open lifestyle group conversation with no specific topic in mind; AND IT WAS AMAZING! Click Best of Vegas promos for more options.

Over 20 people came and the topics ranged far and wide at Hospice Cincinnati. We could have talked for hours… but James kept track of time so this episode is only 60 minutes of must listen to swingers talk… 🙂

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As always we LOVE to keep the conversation going, so please feel free to post below or get in contact with us via social media or ITL.

XOXO

Cindy & James